weekend to-do list

All I really want to do is hang out and read for two days straight, right on through the entire weekend. But! I know that I’ll actually feel happier at the end of the weekend if I accomplish a few things.

So, here we go. This is what I’m going to accomplish this weekend, at the very least:

+  work in our new garden whenever the wind ceases it’s never-ending gusting
+  cook up a pot of delicious vegetarian chili (via DoorSixteen — this is the best chili on the planet; thank you for sharing the recipe with all of us, Anna.)
+  finally, finally, finally unpack the rest of my clothes, run some laundry and get the closet in order
+  walk through Golden Gate Park to the Playland exhibit at the Conservatory of Flowers (stay tuned for a review)
+  sip Kahlua coffee while reading a good book on our patio
+  get the soles of my feet (even if they’re still within my shoes) on the beach
+  eat a delicious meal with family on Sunday (this one is  already scheduled, so I can nearly check it off the list)

SSR

Longreads + Instapaper + Kindle [instructions here>>] + my mind
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How I’ve been spending my silent, sustained reading time:

What Happened to the Girls in Le Roy? (NY Times, March 2012)
+ Conversion Disorder and Mass Hysteria (Huffington Post, February 2012)

The Story of a Suicide (The New Yorker, February 2012)

Sense and Sensitivity (Psychology Today, July 2011)

Cornering the Market (San Francisco Magazine, October 2011)
(I read this article in 15 minutes, which is 15 minutes more than I’ve ever shopped in the store.)

Outer Sunset: Hip by the beach (San Francisco Examiner, March 2012)
(Move along, nothing to see out here! It’s all sand and fog, fog and sand, boring… trust me!)

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bookcover: Dirty Job, Christopher MooreI’m also trying out Christopher Moore’s book, A Dirty Job. It’s whack-a-doodle.

birthday #34

This was my view on the way to work yesterday, on the occasion of my 34th birthday:

One day (maybe?) I’ll dial down the amount of ocean time on this blog, but I LIVE AT THE EDGE OF THE CONTINENT. It’s pretty hard to ignore how beautiful this is.

The people in my life made yesterday such a fun celebration: from coffee with my husband before work, to Facebook notes, texts, celebrations in the office, and a surprise party (! read more about that awesomeness right here on Mere’s blog>>), I had a really happy day.

beachcombing

Last night, I took advantage of the barely-there light in the sky + took a walk at Ocean Beach. A few surfers were hanging on to the daylight out in the waves, several dogs were quietly romping around and the wind was still. It was a little pause in the day to enjoy living right at the edge of the continent.

weekend: last

Last weekend, my father-in-law came to stay with us. His incredible support and encouragement these past two months was crucial to us, so we were glad to have him over to warm our home.

While he was with us, we dined at our most local Japanese restaurant, Yu Zen. (Nabeyaki for me, tempora teishoku for everyone else, delicious all around.), scored deals at the Oakland White Elephant sale, lunched at Louis’ and lounged around catching up with one another and watching television shows about cats. [Watching shows about cats is oddly relaxing -- because I'm nuts?]

This was the view that we –and our sandwiches– had at Louis’.

On Sunday, we visited Trouble Coffee. Visit their website if your eyesight dares. Favorite section= Build Your Own Damn House=  ”a.) Coffee. b.) Coconut. c.) Toast.  1. Manual not included.” Unfortunately, we stopped building the house after the coffee. [Kyle's going to have to take the coconut shift, but I'll gladly work on the cinnamon toast.]

Reading exclamations about a sizable earthquake via Twitter before I had even gotten out of bed (confession re: morning habit!) probably wasn’t an ideal way to start the day. Completely better than waking up during the earthquake, which is pretty nerve-wracking, but still — today was just off.

But! When I got home, I watched some Khloe & Lamar (oh yes, I did), sautéed some kale + topped it with eggs, and now I’m going to read a book and put this piece-o-junk day behind me.

Here are two things I want to recommend to you:
(1) Cooking kale in this fashion, you’ll be happy you did. Kale is now my very favorite vegetable.
(2) Reading some Tana French novels. I burned through The Likeness a few months back and now I’m reading In the Woods, her first novel. Some of the main characters carry over, but it’s not strictly a series. I’d call it a mystery, but it seems to be considered a “psychological thriller”. That seems a bit much, though I did have some kind of weird dreams last night.

our backyard, the Pacific Ocean


Photo credit: Michela (flickr.com/sfagogo)

This is the view we see when we get off the couch + walk across the street to the beach.

Oddly enough, the weather has been nothing but sunny since we moved in two weeks ago. Mostly super cold + extra windy, but blindingly sunny. Last weekend, we walked over to Java Beach Cafe for breakfast — the weather was gorgeous, but the biting wind left me with one numb ear and grains of sand in my teeth. Obviously, I need to invest in some Outer Richmond-worthy clothing.

We walked back through Golden Gate Park, stopping to visit the two windmills on the way. The one closest to us is known as the Dutch Windmill at Queen Wilhelmina’s Tulip Garden. We sat on the bench while we finished our coffees and the wind numbed my other ear to even the score. Then we walked the rest of the way home– glad to have had a walk, glad to be indoors.

we’ve moved!

[ a continuation of this story ]

During MLK Jr weekend, we darted around town, checking out real estate. Often, we knew within a moment if we wanted to stay longer– when we saw creepy basement “bonus rooms”, we bolted.

We visited what we were now calling “the Beach House” twice– after the second visit, we submitted an offer (= a mountain of paperwork). 24-hours later, we were in contract. Every day after that was one piece of paperwork after another, sleepless nights, mountains of moving boxes, nips of whiskey when we felt nervous, and — layered over all of this — excitement about the new place we were moving into. Every time we visited, for an inspection or a walk-through, we liked it more and more. We liked the neighborhood, the beach, the easy access to Golden Gate Park, the close proximity to some of our closest friends and family. We would be living in the city, but in a beautiful, natural environment.

When it was all said and done, the condo was ours! The process wasn’t pretty but it got the job done. There were bumps in financing, tough conversations, worrying, and a selling agent that was unrelenting on small issues. This was one of those projects, though, that we could rely on experts to guide us through. And if we needed to handle something at the last minute? It was in our best interest to just power through and find a solution. My father-in-law told us to keep our eyes on the prize, and we did.

On February 14 (Valentine’s day: awwwww) we received the keys to our new place + a bottle of celebratory wine. We sat together on the floor in the empty living room, listening to the quiet and taking in the fact that we were homeowners after all. We hadn’t moved anything in, we were just imagining what it would be like to really live there — starting the next day, when we handed over our apartment keys.

We moved in a month-and-a-half after we received the letters from our landlord. We moved out of the apartment an entire month earlier than we had originally negotiated. These first two months of 2012 = kind of a big deal.

we’re moving…?

I want to believe that the ozoni soup we eat on New Year’s morning is full of luck, so I’m giving it some credit for the first two months of 2012. That morning, we toasted to the possibility of new beginnings– new hobbies, new employment, and — for us — a new home.

A few days earlier, we were asked by our landlords — for what seemed to be the final, we-mean-business time– to move out of our apartment, in a month. The 3-bedroom flat had been rented by my husband’s family for 40+ years. Great location, big backyard, sunny front rooms, and so forth. It was also super noisy, a bit run-down, and the backyard looked like a jungle. It was home, but our time there had come to an end.

My hazy, distant idea of homeownership kept nagging at me. I’d dreamed of making that purchase, even though it seemed completely unreasonable at our income level in San Francisco. And then, a couple of friends encouraged us to think about owning even if we had to grasp on to the very bottom of the market. If we were ever going to try, why not try now?

Next day, I called my credit union to sputter into the phone: “My husband and I are interested in, uh, learning, um, more about a potential home loan. Who should we speak to get the, well, very basics?” Mortgage broker on the other end of the line, with a chuckle: “First time homebuyers? Sure, let’s talk for a few minutes.” 

Over the next couple of days, we:
- learned everything we could about home loans
- crunched numbers
- asked our friends for a referral to the realtor who had recently helped them purchase a beautiful home (awesome referral, thank you forever)
- contacted that realtor to see if she was taking on new clients at our purchase-level (yes, she was + let’s met next week)
- attended open houses that very first Sunday of January (SOMA, Japantown, and Outer Richmond)
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 negotiated a 2-1/2 month move-out plan with our landlords 

Of the open houses we visited, we really liked the condo out by Ocean Beach. When we met our realtor fa few days later, she noted it along with some other places to see that weekend. Two days later, we had a pre-approval letter from our lender (referred to us by our realtor) and we were off and running!

to be continued….

Houdini @ the museum

The Contemporary Jewish Museum in downtown San Francisco is currently hosting the Houdini: Art and Magic exhibit through January 16, 2012.

This was my first visit to CJM, which is located on Mission between 3rd + 4th Streets. If you’re driving, pop into the 4th and Mission Garage and you’re just half a block away.
Going in, I didn’t really know much about Houdini, and he’s still a bit of a mystery even after attending the exhibit. The objects and artwork focused mainly on his magic and lore, not really who he was as a person apart from the illusions and showmanship. However, there were some great photos and videos of his stunts and the poster promotions of the time were excellent! A good section of the exhibit focused on his interest in Spiritualism, which keeps pinging on my radar recently. Perhaps it’s time to take up some reading about the afterlife…

+ Recording of Houdini speaking in 1914, talking about the “Water Torture Cell”>>

+ Video of Houdini hanging upside down over a crowd, escaping from a straightjacket>>

+ Photo set of Houdini from LIFE Magazine>>